My grandma said, "Learn to stand up for yourself." My grandpa said, "Keep your mouth shut."
I must admit, I was expecting something a bit more touchy feely, something more along the lines of "be a good listener," or "make time for each other," but I got a nice chuckle out of this. And I was reminded that relationships constantly change, and we all have to find what works for us for where we're at in our lives and relationships. I hope that we all find our own best advice for successful partnerships. Do you have any advice to share?
These pictures were taken right after my grandparents met, in one of those photo booths in which you receive a strip of small photographs that you have to cut apart. My grandparents are about 20 years old here, and got married shortly after. My grandpa managed to avoid World War II on a farm deferrment--he was the oldest son and his family needed him to work the family farm near Alma, Wisconsin.
They have three children, seven grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren. My grandpa drove a cement truck and laid concrete for 40 years; my grandma worked 20 years at our local University, where I also work, and although she's been retired for 20 years, people here still remember her.
I spend every Monday night with my grandparents--it's a standing ritual that we always honor. I have learned so much from them and I consider time with them a great and special privilege.
