However, I have read books on spirituality, such as The New Earth by Eckhart Tolle, and I find Walking Through Illusion to be similar. For example, it is not an easy read. It is full of so much information that often you have to go back and re-read the sentences several times over. Having said that, if you are up to the challenge, it’s worth it. These books are full of nourishing, enlightening, soul-healing lessons that will leave you feeling enriched. Walking Through Illusion reminds me of the healing power of faith and spirituality, which often starts with things as simple as changing your attitude and paying attention to your inner thoughts.
The book’s title is explained in this passage: “See success differently, I told Bartholomew, and instead of insisting it’s something you see with your eyes, see it as something you feel in your heart. I called this process walking through illusion.”
Getting in touch with your heart, your inner self. This is one of the lessons in this book…lessons of spirituality that are useful no matter what your religion. I’m going to summarize five of these lessons here.
*Live in the present moment.
Ch 1, Reform, discusses Bartholomew and how he was always unhappy, especially in his profession. He blamed his unhappiness on his job and other people when in fact his attitude was the problem. By complaining and blaming others, he missed the point of life: “The good life was one in which the heart found love. Love was found in the moment. When the moment was denigrated, he missed the love it had.”
*Take responsibility for your life and focus on internal (not external) change.
In the author’s reflections at the end of Ch 1, Reform, she takes responsibility for her life by focusing on herself: “Not until I realized that no amount of reform on the outside would solve my problems did I take responsibility for all that I had created. That was my turning point. I knew that if I’d created the mess I was in, I could create something else.”
*Accepting what is creates happiness; resisting what is creates needless suffering.
Ch 2, Gifts, is summarized in the following quote: “Disappointment comes from thinking that life should be different. Enjoyment comes from thinking that life is wonderful the way it is.”
This chapter reminds us to accept what we have, and whatever challenges life brings. If you’ve had a family crisis, perhaps it will take you years to come to terms with the changes it brings and also to realize all you’ve learned from these challenges.
You also have to find acceptance in your daily life. My husband and I went to our local parade of homes the day I read this chapter. Walking into new, enormous, immaculately decorated homes with features like enormous workout rooms reminded us just how modest our home is. When we got home, my husband said he felt very inadequate, and I couldn’t agree more. But then I thought about acceptance, and I realized that we have everything we could ever need. A bigger home and a bigger mortgage payment will not bring us more happiness. I want to break free of the thought pattern that having the biggest, latest, best of everything can buy happiness. There is so much fulfillment in complete acceptance of what you have.
*The world mirrors what you put out into the world; you have to live what you want the Universe to mirror back to you…
In Ch 3, Obstacles, Peter the Fisherman has trouble with the success of his business until he learns there is more to success than catching fish. “When he believed that being the best meant having the biggest catch, the buyers didn’t bite. They knew their reward didn’t come from the size of the catch, but from the size of the heart offering it. Therefore, they zeroed in on warmer hearts regardless.”
This reminds me of Eckhart Tolle’s discussion of attitude and the importance of remaining in the present moment so that you can bring peace and gratitude to whatever job you are doing. Put out what you want to get back.
*It’s all about your inner state; inner, not outer transformation is the way to create change
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| Attribution: David F. Fry http://www.ideas.wisconsin.edu/ |
Jesus says, “I was gathering people together to encourage belief in self. Self was the only place I knew that God could always be found. Peter was thrilled to be included and, just as he’d been finding the highest form of nourishment in the sea, he began finding the highest form of nourishment in the heart. But wisdom from the former held him in good stead with the latter.”
News flash!! Your perceived challenges are not everyone else’s fault!! You are the only thing that you have control over, the only thing that you can change. So work on yourself, your own heart. I used to agonize over my perceived problems—work conflicts, family challenges, etc. This just creates suffering. Now I just pray to the Universe to help me let it all go, move on, and do better next time. You’d be surprised how much baggage you’re holding on to if you start paying attention.
Often you can start just by tweaking your attitude a little. From the author’s personal insights in Ch 4: “I went from wishing people were different to welcoming their uniqueness.”
Overall Lesson: Knowing God—or your higher power—is about knowing yourself…The higher power that created us is inside of us and everything on Earth is connected. So act accordingly!
